This age is so wonderful for wrapping. Your baby may be spending more time awake and alert and wants to see everything that is going on.

Wrapping your baby is the perfect way to let baby be part of the world, from a safe vantage point.

And because you are not carrying your baby in your arms, you are free to take your baby to more places, get chores done along with your baby, and give your baby more experiences to enjoy.

When to Use Hip Carries: Around 4 months old, babies have developed more torso strength and neck control as their spines develop and they depend less on the support of the fabric to maintain safe positioning.  Once your baby can consistently and reliably hold up his or her head, you can begin to use hip carries which will allow your baby a wider view of the world while providing improved physiological positioning and support over an outward facing carry – you and your baby will BOTH be more comfortable with baby oriented toward you!  (This is why I teach and recommend hip and back carries rather than forward facing carries).

If your baby does not yet have full neck control but is eager to see more, try a hip carry but position it off center on your chest where the wrap will continue to support baby curled against you but allow more of a look around.  Let your baby’s arm and shoulder out of the wrap on the side that baby is facing to expand his view.  You can also wrap your baby in a high back carry that will give him a view while still providing head support – see below.

Time for Back Carries: You can also learn to wrap your baby on your back for a great world-view for baby and super comfortable carrying for you with the greatest range of motion.  The reason most of the babies worn worldwide and throughout history have been on mother’s back is that is is much more practical for moms who have work to do!

Back Wrapping Before Baby is Sitting: You can use a woven wrap to wrap your baby on your back before he is sitting unassisted because it provides such customized, perfect support of baby’s healthy, natural shape and position.  

If you wish to back wrap your baby earlier than 4 months, you may want to find a local experienced wrapping parent to help you learn to do so safely, or familiarize yourself with safe newborn positioning and practice in a safe setting (with a spotter, for example) until you know how to do it safely and that you can monitor your baby’s continued safe positioning as you wear him or her.

If you don’t want to do this alone, definitely join my Woven Wrap Guild membership for easy help learning to back wrap and every kind of wrapping.

For other baby carriers (such as buckle or soft-structured-carriers), be sure to check manufacturer instructions as many prohibit use for back carries until baby is sitting unassisted (able to get self into seated position and keep it without help) or around 1 year old. This is because the panel of a structured carrier cannot be tightened perfectly in every direction for custom support for a baby’s torso the way the fabric of a wrap can.

*back carries should be practiced with someone else as a spotter or while sitting on a bed or other soft surface until you learn to do it safely every time.

Which wrap to get?

All of the wraps that I carry are appropriate for carrying your baby or toddler in any position so just pick your favorite!  Getting a design and color that you love will make you happy to reach for your wrap every day of the year.

Get a long wrap to do multi-layer carries that will be more supportive for longer periods, and for the most options.

Or get a short wrap for cooler carries in hot climates, or if you don’t think you’ll like having a lot of fabric to work with.

Find your base size here.