Wrapping for Vaccinations

Any stressful event is an opportunity to see if babywearing can be a tool to help you offer comfort to your little ones.

Some moms who choose to vaccinate their babies or toddlers have found that wrapping has made it go smoothly and without upset.  Samantha has some experience with this and offered both this photo demonstrating ways to wrap for vaccination, and some description to go with it, which she kindly let me add to my blog:

Administering vaccines to a child in a baby wrap.

Wrap Postitions for babywearing during vaccination.

 

Samantha says:

Pictures of optimal wrapping techniques for parents who choose to vaccinate. On the left, a stretchy wrap without the support pass pulled up (see it wrapped around my waist?) Best for infants up to 3/4 months. Added bonus that this carry keeps pesky newborn arms from flailing on injection, eliciting the startle reflex and possibly compromising the nurse’s ability to inject the vaccine without causing harm.

On the right, a woven wrap with baby in a front cross carry, giving optimum access to the large muscle in the upper thigh where most vaccines are given until the child’s deltoid (arm) muscle has developed enough (age 5-9).

This is also a wonderful carry to use if you plan on nursing AND wearing during vaccines- I’ve found this is the “Golden Combination” to causing the least amount of trauma during the vaccination process. And no, this will not cause a negative association with either breastfeeding OR wearing- infants are programmed to find comfort in nursing and closeness to its mother, and the vaccine experience will not change that.

I Got My Wrap! (fluffy mail is here)

I loved this photo of Heather so much that I had to make a blog post just for it.  I think it embodies how we all have felt when a much anticipated wrap came to our door, or when we tried it out and found out how happy it made ourselves and our babies!

The giant smiles.

The patented flash in the mirror/toilet in the background shot.

It’s perfect!

tri green Ellevill Fluffy Mail

6 Reasons Why Woven Wraps Are Not Expensive, Followed by 5 Reasons Why They Are

6 reasons why woven wraps are not expensive, followed by 5 reasons why they are.

  1. You can get a wrap for free as a shower present (gift certificates available here).
  2. Baby wraps are not more expensive than other baby equipment and are, in my opinion, a better investment than most of the “must have baby gear” that Babies R Us is marketing to new moms: http://wrapyourbaby.com/blog/2012/06/why-spend-money-on-woven-wrap/ (I am considering that a basic wrap costs $80 – $120)
  3. Baby wraps are not more expensive than four trips to a fast food restaurant for a family of 4; going to the movies with your spouse five times; a ticket to an amusement park; 2-5 months of cable TV (depending on your plan);  2 nights eating out with your spouse at Applebee’s, or the couch you’re thinking about buying from the thrift store.
  4. You could buy 150 wraps with the amount of money the average American spent eating out in restaurants 2010. http://gma.yahoo.com/how-much-does-the-average-american-spend-eating-out-at-restaurants–.html If you spend the average amount of $14.40 per week on cups of coffee outside the home, giving up coffee for just 7 weeks would be enough to buy you a wrap.
  5. A woven wrap could easily be funded by the average garage sale, or even selling some unneeded things on ebay.  Plus that will make room in the house for a new baby.
  6. Not all families have any of the above expenses.  A payment plan may make it easier for even a very frugal family to afford a wrap with just four payments of $20-$30.  Here’s the information on my layaway plan.

5 reasons Why Woven Wraps Are Expensive:

  1. Most woven wrap brands (all of the ones that I sell) are made under fair trade practices.
  2. Most wrap companies (all of the companies that I do business with) make ecologically kind choices which include safe, non-toxic dyes (remember, babies mouth these wraps all the time) and in some cases 100% organic materials.
  3. Most wrap manufacturers provide written and photo instructions and/or DVDs with their products to ensure that you, the end user, will be able to use and be happy with your wrap.
  4. Commercial baby wraps are not made from any fabric that you will find in most fabric stores. Wraps are woven specifically for the purpose of carrying babies, and the fabric is made with exactly the right amount of diagonal stretch and give to be comfortable, secure, and easy to manipulate.  This fabric costs more to manufacture than most fabric store cloth (especially when done under ethical standards as mentioned above).
  5. The US has legally required standards that must be met and testing which must be done regularly on the production of the wraps to ensure that they are safe to carry babies, and this testing costs money.  So while you could make your own for less money, it would not be possible for a mom to start a business making them for others without raising the price to cover these expenses.

Where does that leave you?  You can purchase a woven wrap now that you understand what goes into it (using layaway or requesting a gift certificate to help, if needed).  You can also make your own (and here is some advice to help you get started). Women around the world have worn babies without commercially made wraps.

Do It Yourself Woven Wrap

Sarah DIY cotton wrap

Yes, you can make your own wrap (even if you can’t sew)!

I don’t have much experience of my own, but I collected some information on the subject to share for those who are looking into the possibility.

First, I know that Wear Your Baby (not to be confused with my website, of a similar name) has some great advice for making your own.  The top of the page has advice for a stretchy wrap, and when you scroll down you will see advice for a woven, non-stretchy wrap.  They also have a great method for finishing the ends without sewing. Check it out here: http://wearyourbaby.com/Default.aspx?tabid=121

DIY wrap from Chelsea

Chelsea's 50/50 cotton linen blend from fabricland in Ontario. 5m 28in long and 28 inches wide with a 20 lb baby.

The fabric I see recommended most often for a DIY woven wrap project is Osnaburg. And Genna helpfully suggests, “Get an extra yard because it will shrink when you wash it the first time.”  That’s good to know up front, right?  Savannah says, “I found fabric.com osnaburg to be stiffer than stuff I got off of ebay.”  Putting your fabric through the washing machine several times should soften it up, as well as shrinking it down to size so that you know how much to cut.  Leslee says, “I used osnaburg from walmart and cut it about 32″ wide to allow for shrinking from dyeing and washing. I used tulip dyes (contacted company for safety) then sew it all around and I ironed on a middle marker.”

Some other fabric options are monk’s cloth and a 100% cotton jacquard weave tablecloth (both suggested by Sarah).  Prasti says, “I used cotton muslin for mine…and it has lasted through all 4 kids . I like it because the fabric is not too heavy or too light, and it’s usually priced at 4.99/yard so it’s pretty affordable.”

Sarah DIY cotton wrap

Sarah's DIY wrap with 100% cotton fabric

 

Sharon made her own DIY cotton gauze wrap. “I’d only recommend this for multilayer carries (FWCC and DH as examples) as the fabric is really thin. I also made this wrap much wider than a typical wrap (35 inches wide) to provide more support.”  As a note, the gauze you find in a fabric store is likely to be thinner than the bottom-weight gauze used in making Wrapsody Breeze wraps, which means your gauze wrap may be a little diggier and flimsier, best used, as Sharon says, in multi layer carries.  April adds, “I used 100% cotton gauze to make a wrap I didn’t mind using in the pool.”

And what about size?

The first rule to keep in mind is that it’s a lot easier to shorten it than lengthen it!  Start out long, wear it a bit, and then see how much extra you can cut off and still be able to do your favorite carries.

Most commercially bought stretchy wraps (like a Moby) are 5.5 meters.  This is one size fits all, and if you are making your own and are not plus sized, I would definitely suggest making it smaller.  However, you can start out long, try some carries, and then figure out exactly how much you want to cut off of each tail.

I don’t think stretchy carries should take any more fabric than carries in a woven, so you could probably use the below sizing for either type.  I don’t have stretchy experience myself, though, so there may be something that I don’t know.  If your wrap is long, though, you’ll end up wrapping the excess around you and that gets warm in the Summer!

Woven wraps are generally sized.  4.6 meters fit most moms.  If you are particularly petite (under 130 lbs, and not too tall) you might be able to do all of the carries with a 4.2 meter wrap.  Some very small moms use 3.7 meters.  Again, if you’re making your own you can start using it and then shorten it to the perfect length.  If you are a larger mom, you might want to go with a large wrap which is 5.0 – 5.2 meters.  5.5 meters would be considered extra large.

I have a lot of sizing advice available on my website and you may find these pages helpful:
Woven wrap sizes: http://wrapyourbaby.com/sizing.html
Different carries that you can do with different woven wrap lengths (note, these carries are only for woven wraps and may not be safe with stretchy wraps): http://wrapyourbaby.com/wovenwraplength.html
Pictures of differently sized moms doing different carries in different wrap lengths:  http://wrapyourbaby.com/wrapsizes.html

Tami DIY silk wrap

Tami made a wrap out of silk fabric her husband brought from India. (make sure whatever fabric you choose is suitable and safe--some silk may be too slippery)

 

 

Help with Woven Wrap Sizing

Choosing a size for your woven wrap can be very simple.

A wrap that is about 4.6 or 4.7 meters is perfect for most moms to do most carries.  If you are new to woven wraps, you can just go with this size and feel confident you’ll be able to use it.

If you are smaller or larger than most moms, you might want to look at sizing down to 4.2 meters or up to 5.2 meters.  There are also some brands that make extra large wraps anywhere from 5.5 meters (the same size as a Moby wrap) to 6 meters.

And, if you know you prefer shorter wrap carries, then choose a shorter wrap because you won’t be doing the full length carries.  But if you’re new to this and just want to be told what size to get, go with a medium (4.6 meters).

That’s the simple advice.  If you’re not so sure and want to delve into it a little more, I have lots of sizing help on my site and you can start with these links:

Woven wrap sizes: http://wrapyourbaby.com/sizing.html
Different carries that you can do with different woven wrap lengths (note, these carries are only for woven wraps and may not be safe with stretchy wraps): http://wrapyourbaby.com/wovenwraplength.html
Pictures of differently sized moms doing different carries in different wrap lengths: http://wrapyourbaby.com/wrapsizes.html

Babywearing Ballet

I can’t stand how gorgeous these pictures are from our Babywearing Ballet class last week.  I can’t pick favorites, but if you can, comment to tell me which picture is your favorite!

Jenna, from my local babywearing group, owns the studio and taught the class.

She was gentle, as many of the moms had no ballet experience.  All of them are babywearers, but this was the first time wrapping for many of them.  I provided the EllaRoo woven wraps for this fun day.   So many moms wanted to participate that we had two classes back to back.

First Babywearing Ballet Class 1

First Babywearing Ballet Class 2

First Babywearing Ballet Class 3

 

 

First Babywearing Ballet Class 4

First Babywearing Ballet Class 5

First Babywearing Ballet Class 6

First Babywearing Ballet Class 7

First Babywearing Ballet Class 7

Second Class:

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 1

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 2

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 3

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 4 (Wrapping Twins)

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 5

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 6 (Tandem Wrapping)

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 7

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 7

Tandem and Twin Wrapping at Second Babywearing Ballet Class 8

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 9 Happy Baby

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 10

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 11 Tandem Wrapping

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 12

Wrapping 2 kids at Second Babywearing Ballet Class 13

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 14 Sleeping Baby

Second Babywearing Ballet Class 15

These wraps can be purchased at Wrap Your Baby (and more are coming soon, so if you don’t find the size you want in stock, email me and I’ll be glad to tell you what is on the way and when it is expected):

Babywearing Ballet - Fucsia EllaRoo

Fucsia EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Monreau EllaRoo

Monreau EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Eco EllaRoo

Eco EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Limona EllaRoo

Limona EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - LaRae EllaRoo

LaRae EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Christiane EllaRoo

Christiane EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Ysabel EllaRoo

Ysabel EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Claudia EllaRoo

Claudia EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Cielo EllaRoo

Cielo EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Bule EllaRoo

Bule EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Maija EllaRoo

Maija EllaRoo

 

Babywearing Ballet - Seattle EllaRoo

Seattle EllaRoo

 

Is Mother’s Day too Commercial?

Mothers Day Babywearing Cartoon

Mothers Day, or any day, is what you make it.  You can decide to skip Mothers Day on the grounds that you deserve to be pampered more often than once a year.  You can celebrate it on the grounds that it’s about time someone do something for you for a change.  You can smile demurely because you know that your kids or your husband will spoil you whether you voice an opinion or not.  You can make it about your mother, because now that you have kids you appreciate her more than ever.

I am having a Mothers Day Sale because there are many mothers who love wraps or would love to have a wrap, and they appreciate any help in getting one, and this is a good excuse to be nice to moms.

I am releasing mothers from any feeling of guilt over buying themselves a Mother’s Day present because I can almost guarantee that they deserve it.

I am admitting that no monetary purchases need happen in order to celebrate Mother’s Day, that priceless (and costless) gifts are wonderful, and that no gift at all is necessary to celebrate the love you have for someone.

And I am acknowledging that there are families for whom purchasing a wrap is a huge purchase, and should not be treated lightly whether it is Mother’s Day or not.

But I’m not going to let any of that stop me from treating Mother’s Day, and my Special Mother’s Day Event lightheartedly, with a spirit of play.

I just wanted to clarify that anything I post about this offer is intended to be fun and happy, and not to imply that husband’s are bad (or good), that mothers are deserving (or selfish), or that if you really love someone, you have to buy them anything!

So are we good?  Happy Mother’s Day!

Buying Woven Wraps (New or Used)

 Cielo, Fucsia, and Limona EllaRoo Woven Wraps

Used Baby Carriers are big business, and why not?   It never hurts to save a few bucks, and most wrappers would argue that a woven wrap–like a good wine–improves with age (and use–probably not true of wine).  A new wrap sometimes needs breaking in to soften it up, while a used wrap may already be two years softer than the new one.

Watch out for this pitfall though: sometimes the hunt for a wrap on the swaps can be difficult, hair raising, and nerve wracking.  The buying and selling of wraps, like the buying and selling of stocks, is not for the faint of heart.  You need to weigh risks and calculate security (Does this seller have feedback?  How much? How old?  How good?) and logistics (Is the seller paying shipping?  Is insurance included? Is this wrap in this country? How did I end up on the Australian Swap Board?).

You may need to make split second decisions, and if you turned away from the screen for a moment to wipe a toddler’s nose or change baby’s diaper, you may return to find that you missed out on the deal of the century.  The emotional turmoil can be stressful.

Or maybe you thrive under pressure.  Some people bet on cockfighting.  The Wrap Swap is more humane.

But, maybe it’s not the best place to refer brand new wannabe babywearers to.  They might just back away in horror and go to Babies R Us instead.  They might get burnt by a bad deal.  They might become stressed from stalking the swap for a perfect buy, and what new mom needs added stress?

Instead, I suggest:

  • buying her a wrap as a gift (if you are close enough, and have the means).
  • sending her to a reputable retailer locally or online (I know a good one if you need a recommendation).
  • or even helping her pick out a wrap and then stalking the swap for her so she doesn’t have to.

Keep in mind that we retailers of new wraps, every one of them I have ever come across, are really friendly, eager to help, knowledgeable, and generally trying to make anything from a few extra bucks to a decent living to support our families in a business that we believe in strongly.  We didn’t pick baby carriers after researching “most lucrative business plans” but by following our interest in wanting to help moms.

And think what else she’ll get out of it: someone to answer questions and help with any problems, and in most cases a return/exchange policy in case she got the wrong size or the colors look different in person.  She gets a relationship with a person to help her get started wrapping.  Don’t hesitate to refer someone to us–she’ll be in good hands!

2 Years Old and Legacy Wraps

Father and son back wrapping toddler in Blue Miel et Malice wrap

David & Cassidy a couple of months before he turned 2.

My baby turns 2 years old tomorrow.  This time two years ago I was quietly sitting in bed and smiling because I knew I was having a baby.  My husband’s mother came over to stay with our sleeping girls, and David and I sneaked out of the RV, where we lived, and into the living room of our house that was for sale, where he set up a birth pool, my mother and the midwife were called, and baby and I got on with the business of birth.  (Would you want to know if babies were born in the house that you are buying?  3 babies were born in this one.)

When the sun came up, and the baby came out, he was a little boy named Cassidy.  It took a few months for things to settle down enough to start to get to know him.  Is that awful?  It was crazy trying to coexist with a newborn and a 1 year old, plus the 6 year old, while David was releasing a CD (I missed the CD release party when Cassidy was 2 days old) and still working his full time day job while we transitioned to living on the road like a pack of wild dogs or dirty gypsies.  Thank goodness for family, in which David and I, and our children, have all been particularly blessed.

But I’m getting distracted by reverie.  You can read his birth story here (I don’t have to write it again).  My point was that Cassidy is two years old, and I don’t expect to have any more children.

We did a photo shoot a couple of months ago to get some wrap shots for our family business and I am so glad we did because the artist at Remarkable Photography (also known as Lee Anne) captured some of the best shots of our family, the only professional photos we have, and I didn’t know it at the time, but only a few weeks later Cassidy would become too grown up for wrapping.

Babywearing Family, wrapped up toddlers in C&C wraps

My family, photographed by Remarkable Photography.

 

He’s so grown up now, his big sister (3 years old) is more likely to let me wrap her up.  “Please,” I’ll say.  “Please let me wrap you up–we can make a wrap video!”  Nope.

Annabelle, 3 years old, wrapped up in an Orange Miel et Malice wrap by C&C

big sister Annabelle, 3 years old

 

He was sick this week though, and that won me permission to wrap him a couple of more times.  This morning we were going to go for a walk and he just wasn’t up to walking.  “David,” I said, “Cassidy’s asking me to wrap him up–I think we’d better make a video.  Quick, before he changes his mind!”

2 year old in a DRS2S carry

Cassidy not feeling well, wrapped up in the Breeze Ada wrap

 

But over the past month, I have rarely wrapped at all.  I celebrate every moment of his independence (at least, the ones that don’t make me want to cry or tear my hair out), but I do feel a twinge about the fact that wrapping is slipping into my history.  And it got me thinking about my wraps.  What should I do with them?

Grandbabies.  Yes, once your youngest turns two, it is officially time to think about becoming a grandmother.  I don’t want to sell or give away my wraps.  I want to give them to my children to wear their babies.  And I will absolutely be borrowing them when I babysit.  I am suddenly in exuberant anticipation of something that is about 20 years in my future.  Oh, the future is bright and cuddly!

EllaRoo Mary was my first wrap, and I have wrapped all three of my children in it. That one’s a legacy wrap for sure.

Toddler Double Hammock Carry with Mary EllaRoo

Cassidy and I wrapped up in Mary EllaRoo

Nursing Wrap Carry with Mary EllaRoo

Annabelle takes a break from nursing to let me gaze at her 3 years ago.

4 year old wrapped up on daddy's back in Mary EllaRoo

Ada, age 4, taking a break on daddy's back at Busch Gardens

My Breeze Ada, the fairy wrap that my daughter Ada and I designed together.  That one has been used to carry Annabelle and Cassidy, and that one will go to one of my children.

Toddler Double Hammock Carry with Bali Breeze Wrap

Cassidy on my back in Breeze Ada, in the North Carolina woods

 

2 year old in gauze Bali Breeze back wrap

Annabelle and I in our fairy wrap

 

And…the Inka Storchenwiege that I sold to a friend a few months ago because I didn’t need so many wraps anymore.  How could I?  What was I thinking?

Nursing Hip Cross Carry in Inka Storchenwiege Wrap

Nursing Ada at the beach 8 years ago in Inka

It’s not the same Inka that I wore Ada in 7 or 8 years ago.  But when I had my second baby, I missed having a gorgeous Inka and I bought another one–one that I wore both Annabelle and Cassidy in countless times.  Interestingly enough, the first Inka I had was bought used, and then I sold it back to the original owner who had seller’s remorse for sentimental reasons.  Hmm….

I emailed Lynnde, begged her to trade me, and today, just in time for Cassidy’s birthday, Inka came home, complete with the note you see in the picture.

Inka Storch is home!

Inka comes home!

 

One day I will go through all of our digital pictures (and all our actual photo albums when it comes to Ada’s baby pictures from before we had a digital camera or phones that took pictures) and do a tribute post to Inka, because that wrap has been present for so many wonderful family moments.

Toddler hugging Inka Storch wrap

Annabelle loves Inka, too!

 

Inka Wrap Swing/Hammock

Cassidy and I swinging in an Inka swing Easter 2012

 

baby in back wrap carry

Cassidy snoozing in Inka while the girls play in the Mississippi mud

In the meantime, Happy Birthday darling Cassidy, sweet little gentleman.  I love your curls and your laugh, your face when you’re being tricky, and your voice when you tell me you love me.  I love the way you talk to your sisters, your agreeable nature and sunny disposition.  I love your little round nose and your little round toes, the songs that you sing, and the way you flap your arms when you run through the house.  I love to wrap you up, and I love to nurse you down.  I love putting your shoes on while you sit on my lap and kick your legs.  I love dawdling through the parking lot so you can read the letters and numbers on every license plate.  I loved bringing you into this world, and I love every day we spend together.

Summer FWCC with toddler in gauze fairy wrap

Cassidy and I this Summer

 

Using a Wrap for Labor and Birth

I celebrated my birthday this week, and it seemed appropriate to address birth–as related to wraps, of course–in a blog post.  Woven wraps have been used in many ways by many cultures, and in addition to babywearing, a simple piece of cloth can be used to help a pregnant or laboring woman in several ways.

Pulling on Rebozo during labor at a Panama birth

Pulling downward on a rope or strong cloth is an age old labor aid. It assists a pregnant woman in holding a supported squat position in which gravity contributes to the downward thrust of the labor.  The upright squat position is ideal for helping a baby to become positioned for the easiest birth, and in this way can accelerate the progress and contribute to the ease of the birth.

A similar practice is to play tug-o-war with the laboring woman with a wrap, or towel, or a pillowcase with knots tied in the end to help hold on.  A birth attendant might pull on one end and the laboring woman pulls on the other during contractions.  Or a cloth could be looped around a bedpost so that the laboring woman pulls on both ends, and a second person is not needed to assist her.  In the picture below of a pioneer birth, the laboring woman is pulling on the arms of her birth attendants, and even modern midwives will sometimes bring a towel or cloth and encourage the pregnant mom to “play tug-o-war” for the same benefits: for pain relief and to give leverage while pushing.

tug-o-war during labor

 

Upright Birth in Peru, Hanging on Rope

Hanging from a rope to birth upright in Peru

Hanging a rope or cloth over a tree branch outside was traditional, but we don’t all have a place to do this during birth (or a clear sky, either). If you do not have a safe, strong way to hang your wrap from the ceiling, you might knot the end of the wrap and close it in the closet door with the knot on the inside and the wrap hanging over the top of the door so that you can pull outward and downward from the top of the door (pictured below).

Pulling on a Wrap During Labor and Birth

This blog post has some photos of labor and delivery rooms in a German hospital–standardly equipped with wraps hanging from the ceiling and knotted into a loop so that the laboring woman can pull or loop the wrap around herself to dangle.

And this post has a beautiful modern, western birth story complete with pictures of hanging from the wrap through contractions.

Another way that a wrap can assist a woman in labor is when used to squeeze the hips to open up the pelvis, which can help the baby to become more ideally positioned, and also provides relief from back pain:

A wrap can provide a vital service in lifting the belly in order to assist the baby in descending during labor: Sometimes, as in my friend Nancy’s labor, the pregnant belly sticks way forward of the mommy like a torpedo, and the baby–instead of pushing downward in a direction that will cause labor to proceed and the cervix to open–will push forward and backwards (so that the mother feels the pushing in her back and at her navel) or will have no real directional push going at all because she is almost sitting on the mother’s lap, way out in that extended belly.  This can cause labor to stall or to go very long without progress, exhausting the mother of strength that she will need for the birth.  What to do?  Lift the mother’s belly, so that the baby starts to move into place and exert a downward force towards the cervix.  You can stand in front of mommy, holding her belly, or try to reach from behind with your arms around her.  Or you can put the wrap under mommy’s belly and pull upward on that.  You can even hold the belly in the desired position by tying the wrap ends together around the mother’s neck or shoulders, or some midwives and doulas may tie the wrap in place around the mother’s waist once the baby is in the desired position, to keep the belly, and baby from sinking back downwards in front of the mother.  This article explains using a lift to help position baby and accelerate labor. Anything that helps baby into position ought to accelerate labor as it is that position that causes progress.

A wrap (traditionally a rebozo, or short wrap) can also be used to sift or jiggle the pregnant belly, loosening and relaxing muscles in the third trimester and during labor as demonstrated here:

Wraps can also assist the pregnant woman in pregnancy to provide comfort before the birth-day. This illustration shows one way that the wrap can be used to support the pregnant belly similarly to how I descried it above, but in this case, the support is to give the mom-to-be support in her third trimester, to easy the pains and weight of her now large belly, and could be especially advantageous to mothers of twins with twin sized bellies!

Using a Wrap to Support the Pregnant Belly

Here is another way to do it:

And Post Partum? A woven wrap is most often used to carry the baby, of course, but it has other uses, too.  Many moms feel that wrapping the belly AFTER baby is born can be very beneficial to helping the post-partum body to most quickly regain full health and the closest pre-pregnancy appearance.  Many products have become available to achieve this, but a woven wrap or rebozo remains a simple and effective option that prevents the family from having to accumulate another pregnancy/birth expense.

You can use any supportive piece of cloth for this, either under your clothes or over them.  Wrap the fabric tightly around your abdomen.  It should reach from your hips up to cover your entire belly.  It should be wrapped tightly enough that you feel the support, but not so tight that it is painful or that it needs to be adjusted when you sit.  Advantages have been reported when a woman wears the bind for the first 4-6 weeks of her baby’s life, but you can do it for as long (or short) as you like.   I know that several women have used this after cesareans and been very happy with their healing, but I would not want to presume to give medical advice and would suggest that a post-cesarean mama research for herself and check with a birth professional.

And this practice has traditional roots, as well.  This brochure speaks of the Malaysian belly-wrapping tradition, claiming that:

“The Malay Way, in particular, focuses on the health of the woman’s reproductive organs.   The Malay Way will heal the wounds of childbirth, reposition the uterus and restore the tightness of the vagina muscles.  To achieve this, a special corset known as a ‘barut’ is used throughout the 6 weeks. This ancient practice, until now almost unknown outside of Malaysia, is the key secret in ensuring a firm flat stomach, clean and devoid of stretch marks, even after undergoing several births.  Furthermore it helps to correctly re-position the uterus.”